No, your h isn't playing w/you with respect to memory issues. We have had discussions about the memory for many years on the forum. Their memories become mush. They can't read more than a couple of lines of a text, email or letter. Their attention span is that of a gnat. They all have memory issues in their current lives. It's not a game. So, tuck that little question about playing w/you in the file 13 drawer.
It is very important that we check to ensure that payments are made, data updated, etc., to ensure that things are done. In many cases they do forget. Now that you are aware of the memory issue, be sure to check everything he does for the company files, etc.
Bright, what have you been doing for yourself? I like to read more about you. Has your roof been repaired? What are your plans for the spring?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.