Its a hard choice If we are there 2 much, we make it easy, but the relationship stays calm If we pull away or ask too much and make it more difficult, they may withdraw more I think it is best to do what feels right for you If you are having good interactions and things seems calm between you and you see progress ,,then it may be worth waiting it out It sounds like you want to go in this direction
In reality, there is no where to go anyway-except to take care of yourself creating new activities, making plans with friends, meditating whatever brings you closer to peace In time you will know more and which direction it will go Hang in there
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