I need to move forward with no expectations. I will have conditions if he wants to reconcile. I think dbing said not to put a time limit on things. I wanna say-"decide by Friday what you want" but that would just push him away correct?


T-20 yrs M- 7yrs
Me-46 XH- 44
S15, S21
1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07
1yr separation, my decision-2012
His PA started Aug 2016
I moved out Sept/16
He's been with OW ever since