Hi V. Thanks for checking in. I'm good. I don't post much because it feels my journey is done for now I'm very lucky in lots of ways and have no spew or re writing of history W tells me I'm a great dad and how lucky the kids are ( this was last week ) W says she is the problem and the M was good W appears to be struggling with her life and I don't hear of OM in any way.
She has started staying on a Friday night because we had an issue with D15 and W asked could she stay every second Friday as D15 won't go to Ws flat. I agreed and W has stayed every week since. ( 6 weeks )
When I look at my sitch I feel that W simply fell out of love with the family She still cares and has apologised for her words and actions on BD. she was at doctors recently and was advised to get counselling because GP felt she was coping with separation healthy. W still calls and text most days but appears to be getting on with her life
I believe that it's just a case of she dosent know why she feel out of love but just did I have accepted OM is not romantic because SIL and other friends are truly convinced and it's almost 16 months since she left and I think it would have emerged by now.
My IC wants me to give it another 6 months but I'm not sure
Kids all doing ok , bit sad at the moment due to D15 but that seems to be passing
I'll post a bit more often because it does help to get feedback
