I agree about trying to maintain the 50/50 if at all possible. You may have to 'cut your cloth' for now as many of us need to. Perhaps there is a housing/bedroom compromise with some sharing for a while?

I think the main thing is the love and security you provide for your kids. Whether that is in a smaller home or a bigger home is less important...

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus