I will do that..try to keep acting vs talking or telling him.
Next time I think I will make it easier. H..d5 homework is on the table, she knows where the pencils are, make anything for dinner, I'll be home by 3 tomorrow, car seats and back pack by the door. She can wear any shoes. S3 can wear anything. I'll see you tomorrow. No need to call. Ask questions when I leave. Nothing.
He has not called or texted since I left. I did a 1:45am drive by of my house like a pyscho on the way to my moms..no one home but him.
Slight relief but also.. I know I need to not snoop or creep on my own home.