I cannot say for sure what the books would even say about this. Maybe read "no more mr. nice guy" which I downloaded for free but have not got to read yet. It is on my list. But also try and consult with Sandi because to an extent I think I would think about tough love. I feel so bad for you but I am sure you can make it through this. Time is always our friend. I told you I was stationed in CA when I was in the Navy. If you asked me today you would think I had the time of my life, however if you asked me then I would have told you how miserable I was. Yes it is not the same, because I have never felt pain like this but I can tell you while the pain will never go away it will get better. Time will heal the wounds to scars and you will love again.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16