Hi Red, chiming in after reading your threads. It seems like you're doing a really fine job of DBing (I'm taking notes from your phone convos and interactions). Keep it up! Your H is mad b/c you're not allowing him to control you. I'm moving in that direction myself, but very slowly and I wish I would've been that way when this all started. Nevertheless, I agree with broke: remain calm, cool and collected and be safe.
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."
