I think I just need to have patience and stay the course. I like everyone here, probably just really want ANY sign that the WW is second guessing their choices.
Not trying to be offensive with this next question. Do you believe you know what the course is, in order to stay on it, or is this your way of saying you don't want to do the hard stuff b/c you would have to leave your comfort zone? Looking for any signs that your WW is second guessing her choices seems passive, IMO. If you were to see some signs she's changing her mind, then you won't have to do this unpleasant stuff, and you can remain in your comfortable nice-guy zone. It's another way of thinking she will eventually come around.
I don't think you should do something outlandish at the moment, b/c you need more DB information under your belt. You can, however, follow the 37 rules, study about detaching, boundaries, setting personal goals, and GAL. Getting yourself ready for harder things to come.
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Is it ok to give her a compliment from time to time or is this considered pursuing i.e. You look nice today, like your new haircut, your doing great with the kids, etc.
She will know why you are complimenting her, and she will see it as pursuing. Do you know why you are wanting to compliment her?
Have you completed one of the books yet? Have something else waiting to read?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
