Thank you! I'm going to try so hard not to text or call first (which is the hardest thing for me) and if he calls I won't bring up R talk cuz I know he doesn't want to here about it right now. Hard, hard, hard but I gotta be strong!


T-20 yrs M- 7yrs
Me-46 XH- 44
S15, S21
1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07
1yr separation, my decision-2012
His PA started Aug 2016
I moved out Sept/16
He's been with OW ever since