Hi Kiwigal, I'm Jelly (living in little old NZ, if that means anything to you)
I am glad to see you post! I lurked for five months before I posted. I haven't regretted a day of being here on the boards. The love and support that can be found here is amazing, particularly if you finding it hard to the get old emotional bucket filled up in other places.
Sounds like you have some insight in what might be our stuff and what is co-parenting stuff. You also sound like you have taken a balanced overall view of the sitch and taken the high ground, no easy thing to do.
I am not a vet or a thriver( my word for the beautiful posters who have approached separation and divorce with grace and bloody good sense of humour), I call myself a clingon, a leech almost because I suck all the goodies I can from the gorgeous human beings that make up this board.
Kiwigal, keep posting whatever you do, people here have your back and you get the most from post regularly on your thread . Also, it feels so good to offer love and support to others. You also learn alot about yourself when you write to someone else about their sitch.
