I think I just need to have patience and stay the course. I like everyone here, probably just really want ANY sign that the WW is second guessing their choices.
I see what you mean about the attitude as an in all aspect of your day type of thing and not just around spouse. I do need to let her go for my own sanity and have been making some real progress. Not spying on her, not worrying about what she is doing, no drive bys to see if she is home, etc. I wasn't saying to have a negative attitude towards her. I do see now that I will be better after this experience with or without her, and that even if we do reconcile the old marriage is now dead and that I don't want it anymore. I do however want a new better one.
Thank you for reminding me that I am not doing this for her or to control her thoughts or behavior. I am doing this to better myself and grow and this is what creates the results in WW.
Is it ok to give her a compliment from time to time or is this considered pursuing i.e. You look nice today, like your new haircut, your doing great with the kids, etc.
QUESTION: So, about these back & forth texts that are kid related. Just how much texting does it require? Don't use it as your excuse to contact her, b/c she'll see through and know you are pursuing.
ANSWER: These are mainly initiated by her but I think I might be to enthusiastic in carrying the convos. I will be more aloof.
