Unfortunately, none of us here, have a say in what our WAS's choose to do. What we need to do is somehow find the strength to accept this and learn to get ourselves together so we can move forward.
Of course this isn’t a easy thing to do at all and we do need to gather ourselves and dig deep. However, it takes time to get ourselves to the point where we can start doing this and I understand that.
It is important to realise that you both have journeys to take here. They are separate for now but may join again at some point in the future...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
