"Anna, we are in a very similar situation. I feel like my W is (or was) teetering on the edge of getting back with me and letting ow go. But then I told her to leave me alone and wouldn't you know, that's what she's doing. I don't like it."
Hi NYG, I'll bring this over to your thread and respond here. Please don't think your W was on the brink of a breakthrough, was about to let OW go and come back, and you have scared her off. Truly, that so rarely happens. What is more common is for the WAS to get a little spooked, want to keep the LBS in the picture - but also can't or won't let OP go.
I would encourage you to stay strong, stay your course and keep GAL for yourself. This is a long road and it is early days yet
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
