Thanks for sharing your experience Tim.

I agree, sparks, we won't regret our efforts. We will be able to look at ourselves in the mirror and know we did everything we could.

Sparks - the worst thing you can do is panic. Don't pursue, beg, plead etc. I did that and it made everything worse. Like Thornton said - you can't look too far in the future. Do your detaching and db'ing and see how it goes.


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16