I agree, sparks, we won't regret our efforts. We will be able to look at ourselves in the mirror and know we did everything we could.
Sparks - the worst thing you can do is panic. Don't pursue, beg, plead etc. I did that and it made everything worse. Like Thornton said - you can't look too far in the future. Do your detaching and db'ing and see how it goes.
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ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16