Originally Posted By: Thornton

In my case, I wanted her last memory of me to be a good one. I helped her pack, told her I hoped she found what she was looking for, closed the door behind her, and went stone cold no contact for months.


Was that the first time she left you? What was the impact of helping her that one last time? Looking back, would you do it again?

It's also very different with a child involved.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016