Thornton and Sparks - agreed. It hurts so much knowing how much we put into our relationships that it would be nice to be that cold and calculating. But just being here on this board asking for help and trying to fix yourself shows your true character and moral fiber. Wouldn't be worth stooping to their levels. I know it totally stinks to be here, but I would never want to be my H right now. I'd never switch roles with him. Some days I feel sorry for him. He must really be an unhappy human to have left a good M after 20 years and devastating his 2 sons. I would hate to be any of these WAS if they ever truly face the consequences of what they've done.

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16