Hope - have you talked to DB coach? Someone suggested that to me because I'm confused about being "friends" with my WAH.

I thought I remember reading somewhere that their DB coach said detach for a certain amount of time, check-in and then detach even longer if it wasn't a positive interaction. But I wouldn't do that without advice from a veteran on here or DB coach. Because it seems like the general consensus is to detach.

I would leave accounts as is for now unless it is financially harmful to you. That's just my opinion but maybe someone else can weigh in here too.


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16