Hope - have you talked to DB coach? Someone suggested that to me because I'm confused about being "friends" with my WAH.
I thought I remember reading somewhere that their DB coach said detach for a certain amount of time, check-in and then detach even longer if it wasn't a positive interaction. But I wouldn't do that without advice from a veteran on here or DB coach. Because it seems like the general consensus is to detach.
I would leave accounts as is for now unless it is financially harmful to you. That's just my opinion but maybe someone else can weigh in here too.
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ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16