I would send her a pleasant reminder.

W, I paid the credit card bill. If you can let me have your $800 by X date please - you can post to ???? address if you prefer. Many thanks :-)

In terms of finance - you certainly don't want to bankroll any of her 'extra marital' activities. After this bill, are you taking some steps to separate some of this stuff?


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus