1313, I don't know how you do it??? I am sorry for your circumstances, this is harder than anything I have ever faced and I am not yet dealing with the legal issues. I an dreading this more than I am afraid of death. But we must go on! We are going to have our up days and low days but the lows will get less often and not as severe. If you are not involved in counseling you should consider it.
As far as the material items, they are just that material items. Those items do not define you. You are more than anything material, you are you and is a great person capable of great compassion and love. Listen, I am Catholic but certainly not a good one. I am also not a holy roller who pushes religion on people but consider this, Jesus had nothing material and still loved. Ghandi gave up everything for his love.
We both need to buck up put our big boy pants on and trudge through this sh!t. Time is on our side and we can stronger for ourselves!
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16