Revising and putting this as a general post. Sorry for the duplication.
How does one stay positive and upbeat when interacting with WW, to show them they are losing you? I guess i'm just looking for elaboration on Sanid2 rule 12&13. I would love to see any form of temp check.. or maybe I am overlooking them.
It sounds kind of controlling, but I need to control my actions to present the correct message to WW. What she reads from it is up to her.
I really don't compliment her (should I from time to time?), has been a few weeks since last ILY, I don't contact unless about kids. I am trying to go dark, am I doing something wrong if she is not doing temp checks? Maybe just not enough time and need to be patient...
I guess when she does text me about kids, we do sway a few text back and forth but this is very rare. Should I just respond at the absolute minimum or not reply unless absolutely necessary since she gets a read receipt when texts are read(rule 35- I guess having a back and forth is probably not following even though it is about kids, if not necessary I probably shouldn't send it.)
Do you think that a typical WW still wants the safety net of knowing that I am still available even if she is adamant about getting a D and claims to be about to file? I keep telling myself believe nothing that she says and 1/2 of what she does. Easier for me to not believe it when it is something positive, but the negatives I take as an absolute certainty. I think it helps me with detaching.
THIS IS SO HARD!!
Thanks for all the support and guidance, you have no idea how much this means to me.
