Still NC - Let's do the limbo pt2

[daybyday]

Man I wish I was THAT guy with all of the answers. Wouldn't I be a hero to everyone? That hurt of feeling like a reject, like a discarded piece of furniture is devastating. You try to pinpoint exactly what the WAW was craving. But because they chose to sit on their resentment and not speak up for themselves, they have let the whole family down just as we have. They had so much control of the sitch and they chose to be silent. If your spouses doesnt hear you, SPEAK UP until they do. It is your responsibility to make yourself heard and understood. So they failed miserably at that.