I think your IC is frustrated with your codependency, us codependents will talk about the other person until we're blue in the face and never mention ourselves. How can we fix ourselves if we know more about the other person than ourselves?
The thing is, I DO talk about H when at my IC sessions, but that's because my marriage is what I'm having a hard time with! I talk to him about H, I tell him that I'm stuck and don't know how to move on, or that I don't know what to do, or whatever...and I would expect that he would give me advice or help me find a way to distract myself, or how to move on my myself. Something. Help me in some way. But, all I get is that he sits there and listens to me, gets frustrated, and then tells me that I need to move on and forget about him. Okay, GREAT! What I need to know is HOW to do that! Wouldn't you think he'd have at least ONE suggestion on how I can accomplish that?
Sorry, I guess I'm just venting here!
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
