Hi Lou - just caught up on all your journaling. Just want you to know that I am thinking of you.

The opportunity in the UK sounds amazing. And it is quite flattering that you were sought out for it. I wonder what you will do here? I can see the confliction given that your children and H are in NZ. Flights in and out of NZ are long and very costly so I understand it is not a decision to be taken lightly.

I too feel I had the rug pulled out from under me in regards to Cali's situation. It is a reminder that we must keep focusing on ourselves.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced