I moved down to the floor and acted as if I was having a great time cheering the team on to victory. Smiling, clapping, laughing w a friend, all the while dying inside. Games for 22 years and now I don't know if I'll ever go to another one. Please remind me this is the right thing to do. To do nothing. To try and have fun and lmove away from her?
YES, YES, YES this is the righ thing to do! That was PERFECT! You acted like you were having the time of your life regardless of how you felt inside. She doesn't get to know how you really feel. She needs to think you're going on without her. I know it's hard, but it's the only way to draw her back to you. You just have to move on. The more you persue and chase her, the more she runs from you. I wish there was another way, but there just isn't. You're doing great though.
And, MB only asks SOMETIMES if there is anything else to try because I have been complete and total NC for a very long time. I don't get to see my H at work, the store, around town, or anywhere else. Not ever. Even though I ask if there is anything else I can do, I know the answer is NO, that's why I always tell YOU that this is the only way. We both know it, it's just really hard to do it. We can be there to support each other through it though.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
Even though I ask if there is anything else I can do, I know the answer is NO, that's why I always tell YOU that this is the only way. We both know it, it's just really hard to do it. We can be there to support each other through it though.