Hey NYGal,

I think you cant put your life on hold waiting for W to come back.

Its been said on here many times, she left, its over she fired you. You are to move forward with your life making the best decisions for you. Its time to look after yourself. To be selfish and if taking that job will give you a better life take it. Don't make the decision based on if W will do this or that.

Its your life not W and your life. You are to make you happy. So with W out of the equation would you take the job?


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016