I also obsess about when she truly started detaching from me. Was it right after we bought our new house? Was she pretending she loved me at that point? Or did she start wanting out a few months after we moved in?
All questions that I will never have an answer for, so why do I worry about them?
Because they are fair questions as you weren't looking to leave...
And it is hard. There are things that remind us of our H/W at every turn as they are part of our every step in life to this point. Hard to erase those thoughts and I too often when did she feel this way? WE bought a house about 16 months ago that was a reach but our little dream. So why not leave before right?
REally...doesn't matter at this point except to maybe cherish the good thoughts and flush the bad ones.
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
