He also did not say he wants divorce. He is basically saying he cannot make decison until he figures out career????? That he could change career and stay in area so he doesn't have to move away from kids or that he could move away and earn more and have lower cost of living. His decision regarding career has been ongoing for about 3 years.
He had an easier time leaving me and kids then his job.
How could he make a decision on career without having made a decision on family and divorce. Or can he just not say the words to me?
What do I do now? This is indefinite with huge red flags that he just does not want family. There is a lot of diagnosed mental illness in his family.
Or am i just refusing to see my role. Most people could have worked through our problems though. This is just so messed up.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
