Today I woke up and wasn't quite as horrified as I am every other day, so that's progress. I am humbly asking you all to stay with me as I go through this.
I have some big decisions to make. One is, I may get a job offer to move to Boston. It might be the best thing that ever happened to me, or it may be a disaster if I can't handle it. I want my W back. That's my most important goal. Boston is a long ways away from here. It would be a great GAL, but I'll be several SEVERAL states away.
Just 10 days ago she said she's giving serious thought to coming back to me and that she's not happy with ow. But then I told her not to contact me as long as she's with ow. I saw her twice during the week (once by chance and once I thought she might be at the same presentation I went to.) Then of course I saw her Friday night at the game and Sunday at the game. So there's really not been NC at all. I didn't talk to her at either game. Not even eye contact on Friday.

What if I get the job offer today or tomorrow? Should I tell her and try and figure out what she thinks about me moving to Boston???

Does she still love me? Miss me? Could it all have changed in 10 days?

11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat