Staying the Course Pt. II

[HopeRB]

Thanks Thornton. Ya, I came across Uphill's thread over the weekend and am reading through it now.

By me going dark, is that looking to H like I'm moving on? I know on my end I am detaching on working on my DBing/GALing but as you know, H doesn't see it. So what does this all look like to him if he doesnt care and doesn't even see it?

Also, we still have things together, accounts together, etc. Should I just separate all of that stuff before he does to show that I'm moving on? Leave it?