There is always enough blame to go around. At some point, it will be important for you to see what changes you could make going forward. But first you need to realize that if your wife wanted out she would have found anything at all, no matter how small, and pointed at that as the root cause of your failed marriage.
However, the ultimate fault lies not with the person you is trying to save things, but with the one who chose to walk away.
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou
