Another week down I actually slept for 9 (yes NINE) hours last night. Longest sleep I've had since BD. Usually very happy if I get a full 6 in. Show went great Saturday, met some great people and saw a lot of old friends. WW dropped the dogs off Sunday late afternoon, we very pleasant. Think I would like to maintain whatever kind of weird relationship we have now. It's very pleasant and she usually tells me about her weekend and how things are going for work. She never really brings up OM and I never ask. It's just nice to hear how she's doing once a week or so during puppy drop offs / pick ups. It really looks like we'll both be fine. Still no word on divorce papers or anything, guess she's just to busy with work and everything to deal with it?? I am a bit anxious to get the D final and legal though. Still thinking this is a bit too good to be true, really thought I was going to be somewhat in a daze for at least 6 months - 1 year. I am very cautious about it, hoping I don't get back to lacking focus / sleep and all that anytime soon. Might need a new thread, not sure how to do that. Anyone that might assist with some steps??
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)
I actually slept for 9 (yes NINE) hours last night. Longest sleep I've had since BD. Usually very happy if I get a full 6 in. Show went great Saturday, met some great people and saw a lot of old friends. WW dropped the dogs off Sunday late afternoon, we very pleasant. Think I would like to maintain whatever kind of weird relationship we have now. It's very pleasant and she usually tells me about her weekend and how things are going for work. She never really brings up OM and I never ask. It's just nice to hear how she's doing once a week or so during puppy drop offs / pick ups. It really looks like we'll both be fine. Still no word on divorce papers or anything, guess she's just to busy with work and everything to deal with it?? I am a bit anxious to get the D final and legal though. Still thinking this is a bit too good to be true, really thought I was going to be somewhat in a daze for at least 6 months - 1 year. I am very cautious about it, hoping I don't get back to lacking focus / sleep and all that anytime soon. Might need a new thread, not sure how to do that. Anyone that might assist with some steps??