You know I love you and your guy. The gift of this process is exactly what you said, knowing you must chose to love everyday and knowing the work reaps many great benefits.
I think we both love in the same way, with our whole hearts and all we've got. Not because we are trying to win love, but because that is simply the way we love. I have not been in one relationship where I felt the love from my partner was equal or more. I have always loved more. But perhaps that's the way it seems to us. (although I absolutely sure I loved my ex more than he ever loved me).
Keep loving with your whole heart, it's a beautiful quality and I know your man appreciated and reciprocates.
And yay for the 4th! I've got the kiddo this year!
