Toast - burnt or just right

[rich4j]

Have been lurking but not posting for a bit as I was GAL'ing with some close friends who were in town and got to out in the "big city' fora visit

Finally told 4 of my close friends the sitch. They were very shocked and dissapointed with my STBX

ONe in fact told me how pissed off he was for years now about a sitch that she put all of us in when they visited My STBX was rude, and they made an effort to travel to visit us and she did her own thing ignoring my friends wife Things were weird since then and now I know. Said he wasn't surprised I was getting divorced and while he knew I loved her, said I deserve better. Wow...that was shocking

Was really sad. I actually broke down a bit after talking about my daughter while we were out one night.....they never saw me like this but were super supportive

Came back and my STBX was rude and actually we got into it this am. Blamed me for her not working for years.....what? what? she made a choice years ago to stay home even before we had a daughter and was fortunate to be able to do so. Had a part time job and now blames me? Geez...that was an all time low ..... Blame Blame Blame away