I agree with Zeus above. I wish I could write that eloquently! And, as always, he is right on point.
Isn't this the truth: "the mistake that most DB'ers make is they think their feeling are the measuring stick of the sitch. They aren't. It's a game of actions, not feelings."
I am going to do everything I can to take Zeus' advice to heart and I hope you can, too, Hope! It's time to give up and stand for the M while detaching. We can do it! There will be good days and bad, but we can do it....
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16