Your H came over and surprised you to enact some of that control he is losing over you. You did great - walked away, didn't pursue or engage with him. And, you did that with being emotionally overwhelmed and exhausted. And, I agree with V - if you didn't get the cash, then time to talk to your L about getting more serious about that. Keep up the good work - you are stronger than you think!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16