Wow, mind is blown 13

[Uphill]

Thank you everybody for all the great advise! I am obviously a bit overwhelmed right now and not going to be trying to decide anything very quick.

A lot of how this will happen, carries the weight of her having to find a different job. We discussed quite a bit, and for me to consider anything further means she won't be employed where she is now. That leaves 2 options. She either has to find a new job like right now. Or be unemployed. I am fine with either one, the problem is if it turns out to be unemployed, things are going to almost have to move a bit faster... There's no way I can cover any more expenses to have her live separately at this point. I am financially tapped out. Don't get me wrong, my bills are paid, there's food on the table. Just not any extra to keep our living situation if she's not bringing in an income.

Stays quo for now, not going to make any sudden moves of any sort.