RD thank you for posting this is going to be a very tough couple if days things have moved forward and will continue to do so from now

I told her I do not want this but I will accept her choice it is the kids that I worry most about

When we talk to them I do not know if we should talk to them together or separately I am trying to put this off for a couple of days I do not know what questions we should be asking the kids or how to find this out

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.