My daughter will not go to therapy my W will not go to therapy I am still trying to hang on to things I so desperately do not want this to happen but it is happening and will happen

I said to my W we are a family in crisis and she said no we are a family who want different things

She want us to get the house valued he get an estate agent in I think I will let her call them to get a valuation

Do I keep doing house maintance to help to prep the house to sell

So many questions head is spinning

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.