Ok the other children seem fine I have been talking to them they saw her reacting and me having to call the police things are so strained I just want for everything to calm down

I am trying to put off having the chat with the children for today I feel that everyone is too emotional right now and things need to calm down

My W wanted to speak to a soliciters today and I have asked if we can leave it just a couple of days for the dust to settle

I realise that this is going to have to happen

I do not know the questions I should be asking the children and if we should talk to them on their own or as a group as to who they want to life with

Sandi thank you for being here I am not quite sure how long you are about for today but I feel I am going to need your sound advice

I am worried that if I go to my parents then my children will see my W in our house with the stability of her and our home

If I move to my mums to give them space then I do not know if this is the best thing


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.