Ghost, I'm sorry to hear that and it sounds as though you took good steps to protect your D.
I would take this to be the moment you have separated. If you are able, I would stay at your Mum's for the time being and start taking steps to get financials resolved and housing arrangements in place.
I don't think you guys can live together just now in such a volatile situation. Do try to keep calm & take care xx
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