I do not know how it is done in your state, but here an offer like that can be put into a Stipulated Order that way if he does not follow it he can be held in contempt of court and would have to pay your attorney fees for your lawyer to enforce the Order. Here we also have alimony pending litigation which could pay your attorney fees and give you support. The idea is you are both on equal financial footing during the D. Maybe ask your lawyer about it when you talk further about the offer.
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