Wow, those are big types of goals. Honestly I am still unable to do things like... make dinner. Do dishes within a reasonable amount of time. Get off the couch. Not cry at work. Wear real clothes to work (we don't have a dress code but people have been commenting that I'm "dressing down" compared to usual - jeans and a flannel shirt have been par for the course lately). It feels impossible to look at bigger stuff when I can barely pull through a single day. But maybe I can focus on the one-day-at-a-time things and then set my sights higher when I get there, I don't know.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
