So sorry Trumpet. That really [censored]. The first thought I had was the OM is a test. Of you, yes, but of herself. She really doesn't know what she wants, so she's testing things. It will blow up (most likely anyway). But it is *THE* worst to go through. We have to learn the hard way (to quote CS Lewis), but by God, we learn! Hope she learns fast...
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?