Today I ran errands with the kids this morning and took them out to lunch. I had fun going out with just them.
When W got home from work this afternoon she asked if I wanted to have dinner together. Her parents had offered to watch the kids. (Her parents don't know anything about what's going on with us...)
I agreed to go to dinner. I can't lie, I had expectations and was disappointed. It seemed out of character for her to ask to spend time together and I started looking into what it could mean.
We got along great... good casual conversations. At one point she asked if there was anything I wanted to say related to the relationship. I let her know there wasn't anything new to say. She said she didn't have anything to say either. She commented that it was nice to just "hang out" without it being weird or difficult between us.
To me it felt like dinner with a friend... she made no indication that it was anything otherwise.
I don't really know how to handle this going forward. I have no interest in being friends and I don't want to hang out as friends that happen to have kids together. I don't know what to do.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
