With my WW she doesn't really do temp. checks in terms of wanting to spend time together, ask for favors, or really anything aside from logistics around kids. I think at this point she is so engulfed with her EA that it is the only thing that matters to her and she has no fear of losing me/MR, in her mind she doesn't want me or the MR and it is already over. I do think that my GAL'ing does have her is the only thing that shows any positive sign. She did recently ask me what I was going to do. She followed that up with a second question and i just answered the second. she didn't ask again. My GAL'ing is probably the only thing that shows me any sign that she still cares @ some level....I am trying to not read to much into it though. I am really just focusing on detaching and going dark via LRT.
One of her good friends is about "two steps" ahead of us in the divorce process and I know that this is also effecting the sitch. Are you aware of any sitch's similar to this where two friends essentially feed off each other and end up getting a D?
I would love to read a thread if you are aware of any.
