bumping my thread to see if I can get of the vets reactions...
I have been thinking about the phone convo from earlier a bit. It is the first one in 7 months by the way. There may have even been a mumbled 'i love you' at the end but not sure on that. Anyway, here are my thoughts.
1. I do not think this was just a temp check. She was not saying anything to get a reaction from me. She was nit saying anything overly positive either. Everything was focused on her and what she is feeling. She was legitimately crying. Maybe a vet would think differently on whether this was a temp check or not?
2. Her life seems to be a mess. She is not happy. She is really seeing what life is like on the other side. She lost all her friends. Her best friend moved pretty far away and she said that she never sees her anymore.
3. She showed some small specs of remorse. She said things like, she wishes she tried harder. She wishes we went and saw someone like I suggested (that would have been a disaster at that time though!).
4. She seems to really listen to her therapist. Her therapist told her to not to contact me for the first few months after she moved out, she questioned whether that was the right move or not. Not sure if this therapist is a good thing or not.
So I don't know. This is another one of my 'sign posts' that she has hit. I have no expectations though. Right before she moved out, one night she was 'so confused', the next day everything was clear as day again so I know things change on a dime.
I do think I should probably shoot her a text tomorrow to see how she is doing.
