It appears to me, that he had broken you down with isolation and control mechanisms. Why do you think this is ok?
I have wanted him for 11 years..loved him for 7. I do not want him to control me..I just want him to love me as much as I love him. I do not think I deserve this but it never was like this. BEFORE it was good then he became a corrections officer and changed..and now he is 180 changed. I just want my OLD husband back.