NYGal: Trying

[trumpet]

Not knowing what you're doing is WAY better than her seeing you.

The mental games you play, thinking of W being with OW, are being played by you W when you go dark.

It makes her think WAY more than showing her you're still there, still talking with her. Going dark, NYGAL, is the absolute way to go. You have to have some muscles to do it - it takes having some of the hurt not right in front of you so you can make logical, non-emotional choices. You thinking she looks sad is projecting - get the point you don't care.

That takes some mental muscle. Learn to find that muscle.