Thank you for your reply. I really respect your opinions. I have started to read your story and it has helped me to gain insight into my WW that i don't think I could have had otherwise. She is not showing any signs of remorse or second guessing as far as I can tell, I guess that doesn't mean she isn't in general. But knowing what a struggle you had even with fear of how it would effect your family and the fact you were second guessing your self really give perspective into how far gone my WW must be if she really truly believes that she has found "greener pastures"
I see now that I really don't have much leverage and cannot control the situation. I just need to focus on what is going to facilitate the best outcome for my kids and I. Maybe one day she will realize what she has lost, maybe she won't. I just need to focus on what I can control and continue to improve myself and be the man i want to be for me not her.
